Published On:2015/02/05
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How to tell a girl to go away nicely?
What? You tell me there is a girl love you or want to be your friend and you do not want! yes why not.
Ok, if this happened to you, I can show you the right thing to do so read the next lines.
Once I read such a question someone tells there is an Ugly, Fat, girl with cheap clothes wants to be his girlfriend, and he did not want!
Once I read such a question someone tells there is an Ugly, Fat, girl with cheap clothes wants to be his girlfriend, and he did not want!
So what can he do? when I read this I felt sad, he has the right to accept or refuse his friendship ok it is his right, but why? this is the problem because she is ugly, not beautiful or attractive girl, fat, and poor. he put his rule and decided to refuse her because of her appearance only not feeling, character, or giving himself time to see her in the right vision. he told that no one in their class love or accept her as a friend so he said why should I accept her friendship, why me?
If you want to tell her ok tell her now, go and tell her "Hey, I know you are trying to be my friend, but the way you role just isn't the way I role." and all will end immediately but you will be selfish, yes you choose to be happy regardless other will be or not. I know you tell me now if you continue, you con her. who tell you to continue, I want you to think again and let yourself to re-see her again and this time see her from inside not outside, appearances not all everything there are things we should see in any person meet in our daily life, kindness, personality, and the important thing if he/her wants us or not. I wrote a blog about Your Dream Girl you can read it and know what do you want.
Look, I know it sucks that everyone is being rude to you, but you weren't exactly setting yourself up for a polite response here. I'm sure that this girl is very nice, you even said so yourself. Fat is a personality, not a state of being. If you think that someone is fat then you should probably take a look at your personality. Everyone is also beautiful in their own way. If I were you, I wouldn't worry about what other people thought and just be that girl's friend. It's always better to be someone's friend than to not be. Knowing that you have to be around this girl so much should also not make you want to be mean to her. Maybe if you were friends with her, more people would give her a chance.
In the fact there's no nice way to tell someone that they are ugly and fat. The thing is that you need to accept her for who she is and just be civil with her. No one is telling you to be her best friend. You could always kindly tell her that you don't really want to be friends, but that never goes the way you intend to.
So I encourage you to do what is right. Be that girls friend, even if all your other friends turn their back on you, be her friend. That only reflects what kind of people your "friends" are. Maybe you can be a light to this young lady. Maybe you can be her friend when no one else would. Maybe you will be gaining a life long friendship you might possibly be missing out on if you walk away from her. And I am sure if your friends leave you, you will still have a friend in her. I know she'll be forever grateful for the friendship you gave her when no one else would. Do whats right, be a friend.
Look, I know it sucks that everyone is being rude to you, but you weren't exactly setting yourself up for a polite response here. I'm sure that this girl is very nice, you even said so yourself. Fat is a personality, not a state of being. If you think that someone is fat then you should probably take a look at your personality. Everyone is also beautiful in their own way. If I were you, I wouldn't worry about what other people thought and just be that girl's friend. It's always better to be someone's friend than to not be. Knowing that you have to be around this girl so much should also not make you want to be mean to her. Maybe if you were friends with her, more people would give her a chance.
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In the fact there's no nice way to tell someone that they are ugly and fat. The thing is that you need to accept her for who she is and just be civil with her. No one is telling you to be her best friend. You could always kindly tell her that you don't really want to be friends, but that never goes the way you intend to.
So I encourage you to do what is right. Be that girls friend, even if all your other friends turn their back on you, be her friend. That only reflects what kind of people your "friends" are. Maybe you can be a light to this young lady. Maybe you can be her friend when no one else would. Maybe you will be gaining a life long friendship you might possibly be missing out on if you walk away from her. And I am sure if your friends leave you, you will still have a friend in her. I know she'll be forever grateful for the friendship you gave her when no one else would. Do whats right, be a friend.
